when you ladies see a guy at a distance then walk past him just staring off away from him, not noticing him at all, are you doing this because you don't want him to say anything to you? is it just that you saw him and you aren't attracted, or you already have a boyfriend, married etc. ?
did you see him from afar then say:
"uh oh, this guy is gonna check me out and possibly say hi or something, so I'm going to pretend he doesn't exist"?
or do you not notice him at all? or is it maybe:
"i want him to say something to me and approach me but I'm not going to give my attention away so easily?"
if you don't see him at all, isn't that bad street awareness? for me, when I walk past people, I always just give them a quick glance JUST to make sure that they are there for safety reasons. but I DO admit, if I see someone from afar that's probably randomly talking to ppl, panhandling or something, I do avoid eye contact for they won't speak to me. is it kinda like that? you avoid having a guy hit on you so you don't look at him at all?
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are you doing this because you don't want him to say anything to you? I'm doing it because I'm not obligated to notice random strangers
is it just that you saw him and you aren't attracted, or you already have a boyfriend, married etc.? Most likely I didn't really see him guys are like big blobs to me not really human
if you don't see him at all, isn't that bad street awareness? Yep in fact most girls have it. It's because we get approached so often that you kind of just not notice anything male shaped.
Also if you get catcalled in public enough you'll tune out male voices. One time I almost ignored a guy in the middle of the road who needed my help because I'm so used to be catcalled by males.
you avoid having a guy hit on you so you don't look at him at all? LMAO XD if that actually worked seriously what would work besides disfiguring myself so I can avoid being hit on lol