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eeek! sounds like a certain somebody needs to make up their mind! I don't know how it is for you, but in my case, the attraction definitely grows with the relationship. when I first met my ex I didn't think she was spectacular looking either. at the end of the first year of going together, I thought she was the most beautiful thing on the planet. make sense? there's no shame in falling for somebody because you're attracted to their personality and the way they carry themselves.. it's just being not shallow and maturing a little bit.. if you found a great guy who is just so-so looking and that's a deal breaker for you I'd imagine that your standards are like wayyyy too high. you're not perfect either, sister.