I totally like this guy that's graduated college; he's so nice & wickedly sexy. He's played soccer w/me before & seemed to respond to my flirts. He's hugged me for longer than friends & listens to all my stories & issues I have. He told me to wait for the perfect guy Because I'll get tons of offers. How nice is that? He also told me he's never seen boobs so big on a girl that wasn't fat! I mean c'mon! He's looking @ my ta-tas!?! He even said something about my bum, that it "sticks-out" (I don't really know if that's good). Is there any chance he'd date a chick in 9th grade? Think he'd @ least hook-up w/me? Pls say yes.
Are you attracted to older guys? How much older is not OK? Do I have a chance?
What Guys Said 3
Your profile says 17, you hint here grade 9.
There's a fair difference. A college grad would feel awkward about dating a 17 year old, but might do it, besides you're almost out of hs. Grade 9 I doubt it.
When he said wait for the perfect guy, he may have been wishing you'd wait, untouched and unspoiled, till you were old enough to be with him. But he doesn't expect that.1
Even if he is attracted to you -- and it certainly sounds like he is -- you shouldn't pursue a relationship. If you're really that young, you can't legally give your consent, and he can go to jail for rape.
What Girls Said 4
I'm attracted to older guys. If you're under 18, 2 years is probably the most I'd go. Over 18 5 years might be the max I'd go.0
Ive dated older guys my entire life, luckily I was always able to hold mature conversations with them so I was never used. What this man needs to understand is that he is taking a huge risk by dating you. Not only that I find it extremely odd for a grown man to be interested in a 13/14 year old (I know he is after one thing, they love to prey on young girls, and plus he is only commenting on your body, he is a huge pedophile.)0
Well he probably only wants sex with you You are still very young so I'd say he's too old and just taking advantage. If you were in your 20s and he was a lot older, I'd say it's not a big deal since you are a legal adult. At this point though, you're too young for him and just asking for trouble.2
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