Why am I having so much trouble attracting guys?

It is like there is something stamped on my head that says I won't put out right away. I don't get it.
I don't think I come across as desperate and I am outgoing and fun, but I think I automatically close myself off sometimes. I wish I knew how to be more open, but if I make myself open up, I am too open and I wind up getting hurt badly.


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  • This might sound stupid but stop looking for a guy, then guys will be arracted to YOU. but you have to mentally stop yourself because we can tell when a girl comes across as desperate.


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  • i don't think that's your problem. are you shy? are you unapproachable? do you smile? are you outgoing?


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