I'vve never had a girlfriend or had sex and I am 23 years already. I'm not going to say I am the most attractive guy or have the best personality in the world, but I will say that my looks and personality should be good enoguh for a girl to notice me; However, that has never happened. So, I'm wondering that maybe God has other plans for me. How can I listen to God's plan for me?
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I don't know, based solely on your description, sky daddy may just intend for you to be a priest. But I think it's equally likely that it intends for you to be a rapist. Or a 24-year-old virgin. It's anyone's guess. As a rule, it's safe to assume that "God's plan" is actually "your plan". If you're not having any success with women it may make you feel better to think that the big cheese has a special plan just for you -- but if you think this, you're unattractive AND delusional. And nobody wants to date that kind of guy. So brighten up! xD Settle for unattractive; there's no need to lessen your chances.
If you're fat, lose weight. If you're weak, work out. If you're stupid, read books. If you're homeless, buy a tent. If you're shy, talk to girl more often. If you're in school, well, study less. If you're out of school, be sure to have some income. Etc.
Whatever the problem is, you can fix it. Your problems are not so unique as to make them insurmountable. You just have to find your flaw(s) and fix it (them) -- -- because trust me, it's not just your face. I see ugly guys in relationships all the time. And not just TV-ugly, but scary ugly. But they're funny, or smart, or charming or whatever and the girl falls for them.1