The man I'm seeing took me shopping yesterday. We had a great time...except that I found him gawking at a cute sales girl and later at a 20-yr old girl. I TOTALLY understand that men are visual and appreciate beauty. No problem...I do too...I check guys out all the time. But I do NOT gawk; take third, fourth and fifth glances. I am discreet and respectful. He doesn't even know I do it. But not him and it hurts me. It makes me feel insignificant and that I can't trust him. I already have a hard time trusting him…in fact we’re “trying” this together one more time (we’ve had some other issues).
What are your thoughts on this?
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Yeah, he is definitely doing something he shouldn't. You totally understand him being a guy behind all this, but to do it multiple times is embarrassing. I would NEVER be taking glances at other girls when I'm with a girl that I'm interested in. To me, that's just plain stupidity. When I'm with that special girl the last thing I want is for her to catch me looking elsewhere. I want to make her feel beautiful and special, I don't think I'm going to convey that to her when I'm gawking at other ladies. Not smooth at all.1