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Hm, tough one.
I think that MOST men would pick the second girl. But I tend to prefer a girl somewhat in between.
A super feminine girl who is too much of a "girl" to do anything is not a very attractive idea to me.
But on the other side, I like a girl to dress well, being feminine is good, trust me, being a "sissy" is not.
It depends on what you mean by "isn't exactly a tom boy", if you want us to be more specific, we need more specific information!