It is bull when girls say they like a guy for their personality, who they are, or confidence. They only like the guy for these things AFTER the guy is muscular sexy or really cute.
I was not super thin, like 6 feet tall and 170 pounds, but also not big.
Now at 182, just 12 pounds heavier I see a complete difference in the way girls look at me.
My confidence has not gone up AT ALL, so ladies please don't waste anyones time and imply my confidence has changed ,and thus girls look at me more.
So, I am about to leave for the gym, get big and muscular, so that girls will like me for my personality.
Has this happened to anybody else? Do any ladies disagree with my assessment?
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I agree entirely with you because I myself have undergone the same change and noticed the same 'benefits'.
But it's all down to an obvious fact supported by common sense - physical attraction is required to begin any idea of an intimate relationship. Personality is what sustains and completes that idea.
Keep hitting the gym, stay strong. All these bitches will be behind you in a year.