How important is it to you? Like what if there's a girl (or guy) who you have the most incredible mental/emotional connection with--like you can stay up for hours just talking about anything and everything...but you don't find them super attractive? Do you think those (physical) feelings can develop? And would you sacrifice a good physical relationship with okay emotional/mental connection for someone you have an amazing emotional and mental connection with and only okay physical aspect?
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i would not date a man I wasn't attracted to. I don't know any man who would settle for a woman he wasn't attracted to unless he literally had 0 other options so I don't see why I should. its like 1 partner is benefitting and the other is just like "meh I guess I'll take it". and why is it that girls are expected to forgo physical attraction when most men wouldn't dream of it? if I can't find a physical AND mental connection in a partner then I will just be single until I do find it lol because to me someone you have only emotional feelings for is just a friend. I mean seriously, what happens if the guy your dating but don't really find attractive tries to kiss/sex u? your really gonna lay there and pretend he's someone else and grin and bear it? ew I can't do that0