of the three of you, I like him the least. personal preference I guess. but I know what you mean, I have a good friend who is gorgeous and it's horrible but I hate going places with her because people only notice her. but anyways, the type of girls who hang all over your friends aren't the ones you want to be with anyways, just look for the ones that aren't all over him
I think this is the exact attitude nice guys have, no offense. They complain about not getting attention but they really mean they aren't getting attention from THOSE girls
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well... what happens when EVERY girl is like "those girls"? lol
Every girl ISN'T "those girls" and you know it. You want attention from the "sluts"(as you called them) and so does every other whiny nice guy. At least you had the balls to admit it as opposed to denying it like every other nice guy does.
i should clearify, EVERY girl at the party or event we go to. ofcoarse not every girl isn't like "those girls". There's women of all shapes, sizes, and types in this world. Just my type happens to be extremely hard to ac come by.
No, it's fine that girls like that are your preference. I don't care. I'm simply saying at least you could admit it & not play victim like 95% of the dudes on here do.
He's not that attractive. When you say "he ALWAYS has chicks hanging all over him JUST because of his looks. I say that because he is a really bizarre guy" I don't think that's true. The fact that he is 'bizarre' would probably add to why girls are attracted to them.. he'd make them laugh and would stand out more. I don't think you need to rely on him so much in order to get girls, he's not that good looking, and you're not that bad looking :)
I don't have friends that are better looking than me. I don't mean that in a superficial way. We all have features that make us attractive and features that make us unattractive. I like to focus on mine. I'm not jealous of any of my friends traits wise except for one of my good friends who's 6'4 and another one of my friends who has straight green eyes. That's pretty much it.
Personally, I don't find your friend all that attractive, but that's not the matter at hand.
Yes, I have friends who are better looking than me. In fact, all my friends are better looking than me. I have yet to find any benefit to having better looking friends. Guys always go for them, obviously, and when I was single they never "brought the guys to me", as you phrased it. I was just kind of the odd one out.
Oh absolutely I have friends that are better looking, but I don't get jealous about it. They are my friends and I love them. So I accept them for who they are and there is no point to getting jealous, I can't change how I look and there are many people in the world that are better looking than me, so it's just something you have to get used to. It would be really immature if I went around befriending only girls that had the same looks as me.
I don't think your friend is that attractive...the one on the left looks hot XD
But anyways I don't have a lot of girl friends but I do have some that I feel like are prettier than me or have an attitude that guys are more attracted to. It sucks but you have to realize that you will find one that loves how you look and who you are. All you need is one.
A lot of my friends are better looking than me. Sometimes I think it hurts the attention I get, but I'm not with them all the time so I know that it's not completely them. Overall there are always going to be better looking people out there, but luckily not every girl picks just based off of attractiveness.
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although about 95% of them do. lol, at least here anyway.
yup, I have a bunch of close friends that are really attractive. I don't get jealous though...probably because I know them inside out... it's hard to explain. I'm more prone to be jealous of a random hot girl than one of my friends. and in that case, the feeling would be fleeting.
My friend is always on top of everything. Always dressed nice, fresh hair, smells good all that stuff. And he has great looks to begin with. You can totally tell girls (and jealous guys) giving him looks. It's funny to me because he has a girlfriend so it's like nothing will happen, but the other person doesn't know that
My friend attracts a lot of guys but they tend to end up screwing her and just using her for physical stuff most of the time. The type of guys I tend to meet when I'm with her are the "hit and run" kind and they like her better so I don't get that insulted. In general I do not have problems getting guys though.
Yeah sometimes girls do get jealous of their friends that get more guys.
I've always observed running with a good crew tends to attract girls on a whole. As long as he is fairly confident and the rest of you guys are too, collectively you guys will do well.
When I went out to the bars and clubs I noticed my chances with girls went up exponentially depending on the people I went with.
Yeah, a lot of my friends are stunners. It really doesn't bother me. I don't get jealous of them, because I know what great people they are and all that. I'm not a particularly envious person to begin with, but yeah - it just doesn't get to me.
dude nobody is better then nobody is not like is all the girls thats gonna like him too i use to be the same and it happens sometimes too but im the type that dont mind that too much because that can cause you deprecion and gonna feel down all the time and cause girls pssss come on bro in life is more important about doing what you most like and enjoy instead of minding something that will come alone to you one day just dont pay attention to does kind of things like that and do you bro girls this days only love for moments and then when they see someone that they think is more attractive they change their minds sooo just live your life and wait for that real someone
Oh my goodness. The guy on the left is so Gorgeous! Anyways, I don't think your friend is better looking, he just seems to me like the guy that's getting drunk and is pretty cocky and loud...,a.k.a. the dumb*** that seems fun at the parties but the girls forget about the next day...trust me, you don't want to be that guy. I have a friend that the guys always talk to but luckily, the one guy I really like likes me, not her;)
I have a friend that's prettier than me. But she's pretty immature. Guys always seem to have their eyes on her, but when she starts talking like a baby, they kind of shrink away. And I'm not close friends with a lot of pretty gals. But I do know quite a lot of people that are prettier than me.
I don't think have a friend that I is better looking me that I know of. lol, I mean, in the area I live in, yes. dudes don't like chickas like me here. That I know of. But if I go to some place like new york or a different county I probally have a better chance. lol XD
I think there's a person like that in every group of friends. I (not to be cocky or anything) know I am more attractive than some of my friends, but I also have friends that I know are more attractive than me. There will always be someone hotter, richer, thinner, taller, funnier, more charming, ect out there.
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of the three of you, I like him the least. personal preference I guess. but I know what you mean, I have a good friend who is gorgeous and it's horrible but I hate going places with her because people only notice her. but anyways, the type of girls who hang all over your friends aren't the ones you want to be with anyways, just look for the ones that aren't all over him
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I think this is the exact attitude nice guys have, no offense. They complain about not getting attention but they really mean they aren't getting attention from THOSE girls
well... what happens when EVERY girl is like "those girls"? lol
Every girl ISN'T "those girls" and you know it. You want attention from the "sluts"(as you called them) and so does every other whiny nice guy. At least you had the balls to admit it as opposed to denying it like every other nice guy does.
i should clearify, EVERY girl at the party or event we go to. ofcoarse not every girl isn't like "those girls". There's women of all shapes, sizes, and types in this world. Just my type happens to be extremely hard to ac come by.
No, it's fine that girls like that are your preference. I don't care. I'm simply saying at least you could admit it & not play victim like 95% of the dudes on here do.
You're right. I hate how some of these posts have guys that seem to want pity and such.
He's not that attractive. When you say "he ALWAYS has chicks hanging all over him JUST because of his looks. I say that because he is a really bizarre guy" I don't think that's true. The fact that he is 'bizarre' would probably add to why girls are attracted to them.. he'd make them laugh and would stand out more. I don't think you need to rely on him so much in order to get girls, he's not that good looking, and you're not that bad looking :)
I don't have friends that are better looking than me. I don't mean that in a superficial way. We all have features that make us attractive and features that make us unattractive. I like to focus on mine. I'm not jealous of any of my friends traits wise except for one of my good friends who's 6'4 and another one of my friends who has straight green eyes. That's pretty much it.
Personally, I don't find your friend all that attractive, but that's not the matter at hand.
Yes, I have friends who are better looking than me. In fact, all my friends are better looking than me. I have yet to find any benefit to having better looking friends. Guys always go for them, obviously, and when I was single they never "brought the guys to me", as you phrased it. I was just kind of the odd one out.
Oh absolutely I have friends that are better looking, but I don't get jealous about it. They are my friends and I love them. So I accept them for who they are and there is no point to getting jealous, I can't change how I look and there are many people in the world that are better looking than me, so it's just something you have to get used to. It would be really immature if I went around befriending only girls that had the same looks as me.
I don't think your friend is that attractive...the one on the left looks hot XD
But anyways I don't have a lot of girl friends but I do have some that I feel like are prettier than me or have an attitude that guys are more attracted to. It sucks but you have to realize that you will find one that loves how you look and who you are. All you need is one.
I just looked at your profile. I would be more attracted to you than him. Maybe he just really knows how to schmooze a girl.
oh you'd be suprised how many girls flock to him
i wouldn't say that he's better looking,he just looks like one of those guys off jersey shore so he attracts club rats.
and yeah,i do,i have some pretty hot friends lol
hahaha club rats is a PERFECT description
A lot of my friends are better looking than me. Sometimes I think it hurts the attention I get, but I'm not with them all the time so I know that it's not completely them. Overall there are always going to be better looking people out there, but luckily not every girl picks just based off of attractiveness.
although about 95% of them do. lol, at least here anyway.
hmmm... I like you better. just sayin. :p
yup, I have a bunch of close friends that are really attractive. I don't get jealous though...probably because I know them inside out... it's hard to explain. I'm more prone to be jealous of a random hot girl than one of my friends. and in that case, the feeling would be fleeting.
Ditto, he's underrated lol.
foshizzle.
My friend is always on top of everything. Always dressed nice, fresh hair, smells good all that stuff. And he has great looks to begin with. You can totally tell girls (and jealous guys) giving him looks. It's funny to me because he has a girlfriend so it's like nothing will happen, but the other person doesn't know that
lol, does he still have girls approaching him?
all the time lol
My friend attracts a lot of guys but they tend to end up screwing her and just using her for physical stuff most of the time. The type of guys I tend to meet when I'm with her are the "hit and run" kind and they like her better so I don't get that insulted. In general I do not have problems getting guys though.
Yeah sometimes girls do get jealous of their friends that get more guys.
I've always observed running with a good crew tends to attract girls on a whole. As long as he is fairly confident and the rest of you guys are too, collectively you guys will do well.
When I went out to the bars and clubs I noticed my chances with girls went up exponentially depending on the people I went with.
Yeah, a lot of my friends are stunners. It really doesn't bother me. I don't get jealous of them, because I know what great people they are and all that. I'm not a particularly envious person to begin with, but yeah - it just doesn't get to me.
dude nobody is better then nobody is not like is all the girls thats gonna like him too i use to be the same and it happens sometimes too but im the type that dont mind that too much because that can cause you deprecion and gonna feel down all the time and cause girls pssss come on bro in life is more important about doing what you most like and enjoy instead of minding something that will come alone to you one day just dont pay attention to does kind of things like that and do you bro girls this days only love for moments and then when they see someone that they think is more attractive they change their minds sooo just live your life and wait for that real someone
Oh my goodness. The guy on the left is so Gorgeous! Anyways, I don't think your friend is better looking, he just seems to me like the guy that's getting drunk and is pretty cocky and loud...,a.k.a. the dumb*** that seems fun at the parties but the girls forget about the next day...trust me, you don't want to be that guy. I have a friend that the guys always talk to but luckily, the one guy I really like likes me, not her;)
I have a friend that's prettier than me. But she's pretty immature. Guys always seem to have their eyes on her, but when she starts talking like a baby, they kind of shrink away. And I'm not close friends with a lot of pretty gals. But I do know quite a lot of people that are prettier than me.
I don't think have a friend that I is better looking me that I know of. lol, I mean, in the area I live in, yes. dudes don't like chickas like me here. That I know of. But if I go to some place like new york or a different county I probally have a better chance. lol XD
I think there's a person like that in every group of friends. I (not to be cocky or anything) know I am more attractive than some of my friends, but I also have friends that I know are more attractive than me. There will always be someone hotter, richer, thinner, taller, funnier, more charming, ect out there.
Yeah I do . But where we hang out it looks are just one thing you need. SO it isn't a problem for me. We both get nuff attention from Girls .
But I have been ignored many times in my life and it just sucks.