Most people start dating and relationships (or even hook ups or other sexual activities) somewhere during their teenage years. All the people I know started this when they were teenagers. Are people who are in their 20's and still have not started dating, relationships and other sexual things generally physically undesirable/physically unattractive? Whether it's because they are fat, short or even maybe because they are facially hideous. Out of all the people you know who are in this position, do they appear to be physically undesirable? Be HONEST.
I am in this position also. I have yet to go on a date and I've never had a girlfriend and I am still a virgin. And I am 22, 23 in a couple of months. I have asked girls out and let them know I am interested but I always get rejected. I think maybe it's because I am really short. I'm pretty sure it's not my personality because everyone I know compliments me on that. So I have come to the conclusion that I must be physically undesirable.
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My sister is a year younger than I am, I'm 22. I started dating sort of in middle school but I haven't had a relationship in probably...oooh...since 06?
My sister hasn't had a relationship at all, she's very "picky" when it comes to guys. She's cute, big boobs...but yeah she has a bit of a weight problem. Not like hideously overweight that she causes earthquakes, but my sister has a little pooch. Okay she looks a little pregnant...
But she works 2 jobs and goes to school full time to be a psychologist. So she doesn't really have time or the desire to find a boyfriend or whatever. Yes, she's still a virgin.
My buddy just lost his virginity and he's my age. Not that he's not desirable either, I wouldn't go there because we've been friends for years and I would feel really weird being the devirginizer. But recently he got a girlfriend and he's very happy.
And he's only had 1 relationship other than this one.
Everyone is different.
Sex is overrated anyway. Trust me, I've been knee deep in lovers for 4 years now. Not because I don't want a relationship, it's just, I don't think I'm able to have a healthy one. Because my relationships have always ended in failure.0