I am in this position also. I have yet to go on a date and I've never had a girlfriend and I am still a virgin. And I am 22, 23 in a couple of months. I have asked girls out and let them know I am interested but I always get rejected. I think maybe it's because I am really short. I'm pretty sure it's not my personality because everyone I know compliments me on that. So I have come to the conclusion that I must be physically undesirable.
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My sister is a year younger than I am, I'm 22. I started dating sort of in middle school but I haven't had a relationship in probably...oooh...since 06?
My sister hasn't had a relationship at all, she's very "picky" when it comes to guys. She's cute, big boobs...but yeah she has a bit of a weight problem. Not like hideously overweight that she causes earthquakes, but my sister has a little pooch. Okay she looks a little pregnant...
But she works 2 jobs and goes to school full time to be a psychologist. So she doesn't really have time or the desire to find a boyfriend or whatever. Yes, she's still a virgin.
My buddy just lost his virginity and he's my age. Not that he's not desirable either, I wouldn't go there because we've been friends for years and I would feel really weird being the devirginizer. But recently he got a girlfriend and he's very happy.
And he's only had 1 relationship other than this one.
Everyone is different.
Sex is overrated anyway. Trust me, I've been knee deep in lovers for 4 years now. Not because I don't want a relationship, it's just, I don't think I'm able to have a healthy one. Because my relationships have always ended in failure.