I hate disappointing people and especially those who appreciate me for who I am, but I just can't make myself like anyone unless there is some kind of ''chemistry''. I'm not gonna lie looks are important to me, but not more so than personality. I've had crushes on guys who were not ideal in the looks department but sexy in their own way because of their sense of humor, intelligence.
Do you think that maybe ''chemistry'' is overrated? Some of my friends are in serious relationships with guys who they first didn't like, but grow to like them afterward and are very happy right now.
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There is nothing shallow about not being attracted to guys you "think" you should be attracted to, because attraction is a gut feeling, that isn't logical. It doesn't make sense. If a guy tickles your fancy good for him. If he doesn't - it's his problem, not yours.0