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i thought it was the other way around where you keep doing something till it's not new to you anymore and then you're set.
if you talk to girls you don't find attractive and attractive girls notice you, the only reason they do notice you is because they believe you're a nice guy, aren't shallow, and you don't want them JUST because of thier good looks (which would be a lie)
because you'd be using those "unattractive" girls to get to attractive girls. the thing is once she see's your true colors she'll be gone like the wind.
what you just described was "the players method" hurting every girl in your path and giving them false hope.
cool now, not so cool when you have a daughter.