My boyfriend used to shave all the time. And when he didn't,it wasn't as big a deal, because his hairs were finer/ thinner since he was younger. But now his hairs are very coarse, and it's very uncomfortable for me to kiss him when he's gone more than a few days between shaves. Sometimes I let him know that I prefer it when he shaves for that reason, and sometimes if he seems to be forgetting, I request nicely for him to shave the next day. I don't like to nag or seem superficial, but it really bothers me when he continually forgets even when he says he'll do it. I don't expect him to shave every day, but I don't think every few days is too much to ask. After all, I have a lot more skin to shave than he does, but I do it for him.
How can I get him to prioritize this more? It starts to cause resentment for me when I feel like he doesn't care that kissing him is painful for me. I want to be able to enjoy kissing him and I want to feel like he's willing to put in that little effort for me. Any advice?
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The only way is to do the same with him and see if he even cares. Stop shaving yrself down there and everywhere else and look rough to him. See if it makes any difference to him. Give him tit for tat. If he doesn't ask you what is going on or doesn't change, I'm sorry, you two do not belong together. I mean it... From experience.0
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