How often do you worry about being attractive to the opposite gender?

On a scale of one to ten how much do you worry about being attractive to the opposite gender either physically and mentally?

about 4/10 for me.
Updates:
I suppose I should clarify: 4/10 on looks for me. Then about 7/10 mentally. I usually worry about if I'm too boring for the girl, or if she will ignore me for whatever reason. ><
BTW


1 = you don't worry at all

10 = you worry a lot

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Most Helpful Girl

  • I spend many sleepless nights thinking about both :-p

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    • Really? :-O

    • If you believe that feeling bad or worrying long enough will change a past or future event, then you are residing on another planet with a different reality system.

      ~ William James

      Thanks for the ba :-)

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What Girls Said 19

  • looks 9/10

    personality 1/10, I would never change my personality for anyone I've been through enough to know who I am and to like it enough not to care what others think of it. Looks are important to me simply because I like to look nice and the extra smiles are nice.

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  • Depends on the day I suppose... If I don't care physically, I don't care mentally, so if it's a bad day, it's a bad day all around.

    Averages though would probably be 7/10 physically and 5/10 mentally. I don't feel as much of a need to impress anyone mentally or with my personality, it's not worth changing for someone else.

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  • 7/10 on looks I guess. Although that quickly fades once I find out if he likes me or not. I don't worry about it as much anymore, and it drops to a 3.

    Once we start getting closer, I worry about my personality more and more. It goes up to a 6-7, sometimes more.

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  • 7=Looks

    2=Mentally

    Mentally is significantly lower because I don't care about a lot of things others focus on and I am often in my own world.So at times I could care less if people get that aspect of me.

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  • I only really care if I like the guy. Obviously I want him to find me attractive and enjoy my personality. But "worry"? Like a 2/10? Either he likes me or he doesn't. I'm not gonna fuss over it.

    With randoms I don't really care. I like maintaining myself, but I'm not crazy into it.

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  • Idk I don't really pay attention to that because if he's talking and flirting and showing signs, obviously he likes what he sees, right? Right.

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  • Physically-5

    Mentally-2

    I just be myself and people tell me I have a great personality that I'm so kind :)

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    I don't worry about it because guys check me out all of the time.

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  • I don't worry about it as much as I think about it. Like on my down days, I wonder if I actually *am* attractive to the opposite gender... I guess once in a while if I really like someone, I'll worry that they won't like me because of this, or because of that (usually it's looks-wise - I quite like my personality, actually... though I do sometimes wonder if I'm too sarcastic :-), but at the same time I have this thing where I'm too stubborn to change myself for the sake of other people. I just refuse to let myself care that much. So on those days when I'm feeling less secure about myself, I'm pretty much screwed, haha

    Dunno if any of that made sense, but it's the best I could do with what was coming out of my head. :-)

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    • Forgot to rate. Okay... at the moment, physically - 4-ish/10

      And mentally - 3-ish/10

      Unfortunately, ish's are the best I can give you :-)

  • It used to be like 9/10 physically but lately it's like 3/10.

    Mentally used to be 9/10 too and lately it's 4/10.

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What Guys Said 16

  • I'm kind of pathological in that sense that every time I'm around someone I'm attracted to or even around their friends I always try to portray the best me possible, physically and mentally.

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  • Not that often any more. I used to worry about it alot, but now I rarely think about it. Take me as I am. It helps that I think I look better since I shaved my beard.

    Physically - 2/10

    Mentally - 3/10

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  • physically - 10/10

    mentally - 5/10

    I like my personality more than my looks. I have been complimented on both but I think my personality is my strongest aspect. Yet I still haven't been able to get a girlfriend with either of them.

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  • All the time...too many girls are judgmental on looks these days. You could be an amazing guy, but on you're only average on the outside, girls will very rarely notice you.

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  • I worry less about it each day. lol!

    2/10 :) I am what I am etc..etc.

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  • Looks: 7/10

    Personality: 2/10

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  • looks: 7/10

    Mentality: 7/10

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  • Looks 8/10

    Mentaly 10/10

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  • 1/10 for both.

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  • maybe 2/10 for me

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