people tell me that I have a pretty face and nice body, but guys don't notice me because I don't stand out. I have long, straight, brown hair, pale skin, wear glasses, and dress in normal jeans and t-shirts. I don't wear makeup.
i've had guys tell me I would look hot if I "put in some effort". what does that mean? what am I supposed to do to stand out?
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There's no reason to be putting in 'effort' to look 'hot' and your age. The superficial creeps who look at pictures of women a lot will ignore you, and that's a GOOD thing. The guys with some level of appreciation for what's important will notice your natural, fresh-faced look. I used to take notice of girls like yoou when I was a teenager, for example.
Glasses an dno make-up, yes, it brings back memories! You won't have bad memories to write about on Gag in a few years like so many of the women here.
Do't try to be older, stay true to yourself!