Why do girls/women think overweight guys are not good boyfriend material?
What Girls Said 10
My boyfriend is overweight and I'm attracted to him. He doesn't have a car due to just moving back into the state, and doesn't have money either because he just started a new job a week or so ago. Muscles? Sure, but he's obviously not like super cut and bulging with them. I find huge muscles with zero body fat to be really unattractive, personally.
Have you ever thought that maybe it's your bitter attitude that turns girls off, and not how you look?
How is it that I see so very many fat husbands, then? I have to imagine there's something about these guys that attracted their wife and made them stay interested in the relationship (perhaps even despite weight gain) - most likely not their money in many cases, as I know plenty who don't have much. Perhaps it's more along the lines of "This man makes me laugh, is supportive and respectful, and we have chemistry?"
Why do you think guys who are in good physical condition are douchebags? Do you think going from fat to fit would change your personality and make you an a**hole? Are you saying that fat people automatically have better characters than men with muscles? You sould bitter and jealous to be honest. you don't have to be rich but you should be attractive if you want to attract women, come on now
WOW...This thread became quite pathetic real fast. Your last update to pr3ttybr0wn says a lot about who you are.For one,you can't handle anothers opinion,so why even bother asking a question.Secondly,you just want to sound off about your own appearance when you could hit a gym and help yourself. People equate your appearance with how well you take care of yourself. So here's a tip...less cheese burgers.
It's just how life works.Deal with it. Good luck.
Because excess fat degrades your physical appearance and makes you less attractive. not too many women are jumping to date men they aren't attractive. it's the same reason why most men don't think overweight girls aren't good girlfriend material. they just don't find them attractive. the overweight girls who don't like overweight guys either need a reality check, or a kanye workout plan. you can't demand someone to be fit when your not yourself
I'm sorry, but that's not true. I've liked some guys who are overweight because I liked their personalities; they were both very talented people, kind, smart and made me laugh. I was sexually attracted to them and neither of them had much money. I can't speak for all women but I think a lot of women would prefer a great personality over looks. Besides, if you don't like the way you look, you can always change it.
Anyway, it cuts both ways. Many guys draw the line at dating a fat/overweight girl no matter her personality.
Don't call pr3ttybr0wn names, she was just trying to help you.
Because it looks like you don't take care of your appearance or have lazy qualities.
I'll have to disagree with you on that, I've had quite a few crushes on guys who were overweight. I was always afraid to even talk to them because I thought they would hate me or something. personality counts for every woman, you just need to look for the right girl. do you really want to be called "hot"? if I were a guy I would rather be called handsome, also, your personality reflects on how you look as well. now that I think about it, I have gone out with an overweight guy. really nice guy! but he broke up with me.. anyway! I hope I helped:)
I really do not care about his looks! I am more the personality looking person. For me I rather date a person who's not rich because they all complete snobs.
I've found guys of all sizes attractive. *shrug*
What Guys Said 4
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