Why are girls so insecure about their boobs?

My girlfriend flipped sh*t on me for trying to take her bra off, I asked her why and she said they were too small. She's a 32C or something and her boobs are like the perfect size. Why does it seem like all girls are insecure about their boobs?

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  • I dunno, maybe it's because whenever guys see a pair of DD's their eyes pop out of their head and whenever there's a hot celebrity with small boobs guys go, "She's hot even though she has small boobs." Any guy who wants to know why girls get insecure about their breast size (or any other physical aspect about themselves) just needs to look in the mirror, look at your friends, and look at 99% of guys and you'll find the problem. I'm a 32A and I hate having small boobs, I feel like I have to stay thin to be attractive because I definitely don't want to be fat with small boobs. I don't fill out my clothes the way I'd like to, whenever I go out I feel like I have to wear a padded push-up bra just so I don't look like I'm 12, and I definitely worry about hooking up with a guy and then having him be disappointed with my boobs. You're girlfriend on the other hand has no reason to really be insecure, C's and D's are like perfect.

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  • Well you have models/porn actresses to thank for most of that. Not all girls are insecure about their boobs but a good amount are. Make her feel good about herself. Compliment her body and then compliment her breasts. Make her feel wanted and loved. Maybe even buy her a new fancy bra/lingerie set to help build confidence in her breast area.

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    • Everytime I compliment a girls breasts they look like they wanna slap me. :-O

    • How do you do it? And do you compliment the girl while in the bedroom? If you compliment a girl in public/not the right time then chances are you'll get that reaction.

  • It might be that your girl compares herself to other girls that have the "perfect size". Some girls also see that immature guys notice girls with bigger breasts. Let her know that she is beautiful and that her size is perfect. Make her feel special.

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  • As much as I adore my boobs, I'm still pretty insecure about them-- we're all insecure about things. But that doesn't stop me from showing them off >>

    point being, we all have insecurities and deal with them in different ways.

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  • she said she's only a C because her ribcage is small which is true :p but I really don't understand her...

    isnt the letter about the cup size-not the ribs. I thought the number was for the rib cager. also if her rib cage is small& she's a 34 c-that means her boobs are bigger than if she had a large rib cage-so I am not getting the point that's supposed to make.

    anyways that's crazy. youve been with her you know she's not gigantic. & c is a perfectly good size.

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    • I'm a 32C and his girlfriend is probably right because my boobs look like a 34B, I just have a smaller ribcage and the bands don't fit as well :3

    • if you have a smaller rib cage then your breasts will look bigger by comparison to your body mass- than if your rib cage was bigger.

      just like the same breasts on a tall person look smaller than on a shorter person. & he didn't say she had a problem with the bra-he said she had a problem with taking the bra off.if that's what you meant by bands. otherwise I don't know what bands are.

  • We are insecure over our boobs because guys expect us to have huge boobs like celebrities but we don't.

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  • She is probably wearing a super pushup bra some bras make your chest look huge when it's actually small. If it's a miraculous bombshell bra from Victoria secret it makes them look two sizes bigger. She is probably really a size A or B. I know cuz I'm a woman and lots of women use those bras to look way bigger. The bra is 80% just padding. let her know you don't care if she has small boobs say that's your favorite kind and give her a wink. she will probably feel more comfortable letting you see them

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  • we usually get made fun of it by girls all the time so we think you might not like them

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    • Those girls should keep their stupid mouths shut because, while we don't mind small boobs, we don't have much use for b*tches that put other girls down...(:

  • I'm 32A and I love my boobs. I don't even wear a bra around my boyfriend. Girls are weird!

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    • WOW! Lots of us would love your boobs...not sure if I have ever heard that from a female tho..O:O

    • Haha well I'm only 100lbs roughly, so I'm proportionate. I would look stupid with large breasts, not to mention that I find them unattractive.

  • Maybe its because so many guys go for girls with bigger boobs.

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  • Well, as a girl with somewhat big breasts (34D), from my experience and the guys I know and my observations, guys who like big breasts are extremely vocal about it and I guess that makes girls with small boobs feel bad.

    It's so weird how girls with small boobs seem to think NO guy is entitled to liking big breasts or preferring them and girls with big boobs are SO shocked to find out *some* guys prefer small breasts and are even turned off by big breasts(just like some guys are turned off by small breasts).

    How many times do you hear guys say "Look at her small t*ts!" yeah, not alot. Just like you don't hear many dudes ranting about flat or small asses

    Anyways, people should quit using boob size as a crutch.

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  • Same as guys about our d***s.

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