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Honestly? The mp3 is nothing. A guy won't use that because he cares about who gave it to him. He'll use it because he wants to use it.
And when it comes to wearing sweatshirts... again, guys don't notice.
You know the stereotype... guy comes home, wife wants him to notice her hair, new shoes, ear-rings, whatever it is... and he has no clue, even with prompting from her?
It's a true stereotype. Guys really and truly do not notice those things. And often don't care when they do notice.
The idea that the clothes you wear would be conveying some sort of hidden message about your emotions for him...is such an unusual, weird, strange, foreign idea ... it literally could never occur to him.