She's..a bigger girl, average prettyness I guess (not very pretty but not ugly)... and then there's me, I'm slimmer yet still curvy/tall/quite pretty face, great hair etc. And yet this girl consistently has boyfriends and I'm forever alone. I'm extremely kind and sweet etc but I have troubles showing people that since I'm shy. Could it be that my shyness is why she seems to have more luck with men than me?
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Imo...yes, it is the shyness.
I find it disturbing that you think that because this girl is chubbier and (in your opinion) has a less attractive face than you, that somehow that makes you "better than her".
Shallow much? There are guys that like every bodytype. Your shallowness (yes, I said shallowness) is probably giving off bad vibes and that can detract guys.
There is more than looks to get a boyfriend, QA. Her non-shy nature is probably what also attracts guys.
As for your shyness? It takes time to break it, but once you do it will change your life. :)
Why do you think that you're shy?