How do I stop letting that affect my life ?
How do I just move on and stop defining myself by the way I look?
How to be happy as an ugly girl ?
How to get over the fact that I'm ugly?
I don't want this control my life forever , I'm still 17 and I do want to enjoy myself.
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HI! I may not have the answers your looking for, but I feel that is because no one does.
But I will try to help.
My brothers girlfriend is really, really ugly, yet he is a good looking guy!
everyone tells him that she is so ugly but he swears that he loves her because she accepts him for who she is.
Not everyone in this world is superficial and judgmental.
Just because the norm is does not mean everyone is.
Everyone has their challenges in life.
You will never be given a challenge in life that you can not overcome.
It is the spirit and soul of each individual that makes them who they are not their physical appearance..
There comes a time in everyone's life when they have to accept and love themselves for who they are.
Do you really think that the cheerleader, or the movie star that spends hours in front of the mirror changing herself is truly happy with who she is?
NO! if she was she would not have to change a thing about herself, but she does. Why? Because she has a void inside of her. as we all do!
this society conditions us to think outside ourselves. there are 7 billion people on this earth. there is someone out there that will accept you for who you are, but you must be happy with you first. when you do that it will show and people will be attracted to your heart not you face or body shape.
it is what is on the inside that counts. when we die we cannot take our makeup, our friends, gfs, bfs, mother, farther or anyone with us.
there will come a time when we all must face ourselves. our true selves.
Sometime struggle is necessary for the purification of ones soul.