Being seen with a ugly girl?

I am wondering what girls think of a guy that you see go out with a ugly girl and how it effects your likeliness to go out with him yourself?

Consider two scenarios:

1. You have seen him spend time with a random ugly girl in a romantic/sexual way (like holding hands/kissing).

2. Or with a ugly girl within your social circle.

Would any of these scenarios change your view of the guy?


Most Helpful Girl

  • No. If he's with someone in my social circle, I won't go after him. If I've seen him spend time with her and think they're dating, I'll have no desire to go after him regardless of how good looking he is. But both of these apply if the girl is pretty too. I don't really judge based on how handsome or beautiful a person is. If he's with an ugly girl, there must be a reason.

    • First you say you don't judge based on how beautiful someone is, and then you say there must be a reason he goes out with a ugly girl. It seems like you are contradicting yourself? Are you saying that you assume a guy going out with a ugly girl probably has some issues?

    • NO not at all. I'm saying I don't look at him and think, "He can't do better." and I don't look and think, "Wow he needs a more attractive woman." Regardless of how pretty the girl is, if he's with one I think, "Alrigth he's taken." It does not change my opinion of him.

Recommended Questions

Have an opinion?

What Girls Said 2

  • Either scenario - I would think he sees someone for who they are and not whether they are hot or not. I would probably have more respect for him. UNLESS I found out he was going out with her just to get laid or something. Then I would be mad.

    I don't think it would affect my likeliness to go out with him UNLESS I liked him in the first place and he was casually dating the ugly girl. But if they were in a relationship, I wouldn't mess with that.

  • No.If he is hot, I think damn he could do better, (me, lol) but I don't think less of him. In fact I might even think better of him for seeing past her looks or not feeling he has to go for a certain type of girl because society expects him to.


What Guys Said 0

Be the first guy to share an opinion
and earn 1 more Xper point!

Recommended myTakes