**Ugly = Fat** (I am not showing my face on the internet)
Girls always claim that confidence and personality are the main keys to attraction. However, confidence (in most cases) and personality don't help initial attraction which matters a lot more.
If I had an immense amount confidence I would be labeled as creep. Because the term creep is only reserved for UGLY MEN or men who do inappropriate actions towards women. If I had a lot of personality or charisma all I amount to is a lowly friend (friend zone) which is condescending.
Explain, how can confidence or personality make up for this body or bodies even worse than mine? Because it seems that women are lying about this.
Also I am working out and dieting and so far I lost 40 pounds, some muscle and a lot of strength and I still look the same from when I wasn't work working out. So this is a failure so far. Even though I'm working hard to better myself I'm still labeled as an inferior being who doesn't take care of himself. As for my chest (gynecomastia), I plan on getting surgery despite the risks. Life in this body isn't worth living, so I don't care about risking my life.
At least there is one plus side to my body, I look halfway decent in dark clothes (I mainly wear black).
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From what you wrote, you're putting yourself down. You're giving up before you even try.Foe example:If I had a lot of personality or charisma all I amount to is a lowly friend (friend zone) which is condescending." No girl wants to be with someone like that, especially on a romantic level. If you lost 40 pounds I highly doubt you look the same. Sometimes when we lose weight, we don't notice because we see ourselves all the time.The fact that you're downing yourself shows that maybe you don't love yourself. And if that's true, then how do you expect anyone else to love you? I know it's cliche, haha, but it's true.