I intern in the legal field at a big place.
Let's be up front, I have DD boobs and a large round ass.
I don't wear a skirt shorter than one that covers 3/4 of my thigh.
I don't bare cleavage.
I usually wear pencil skirts with a blouse or plain fitted high neck black shirt.
My heels are no higher than 3 inches.
But, this woman said "You should stop standing out, the men are all looking at you"
I can't help my body, and as I described, I don't think anything I wear is too outrageous, it is just my shape. Am I supposed to hide behind a potato sack because I have curves?
Could she just be jealous? She's middle aged and a lot of the men her age stare and talk to me. Sometimes if we pass by together they talk to me and not her.
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Of COURSE she's jealous. You're right, it's not yur fault, and th eolder guys in this field are usually pretty repressed, so of ocurse they'll look and flirt a little.
You'll have to think of a plan to manage her. NEVER mention your body, be friendly to her, ask her out for coffee and praise her and tell her she looks nice; ask where she buys HER clothes, they're no doubt expensive and well tailored, so it infuriates her she can't get the attention you do. Try to avoid the men who are looking the most. Complain to her about them; you could even ask her to speak to those men about leering at you, although that could be risky.
Theres no sure fire way to 'solve' this; good luck.0