This man tried to get physical with me, in a gentle, nervous way. When I pulled away and told him it wasn’t what I had in mind, he stopped and appeared OK throughout the rest of our date (our first one). I didn’t hear from him since then and thought he was only after sex, and when he didn’t get it, his true colors came to surface. I was disappointed for I really liked him, but had to move on. Today (two month later), he wrote me saying I was great person…..and that he was under the impression I wanted a close relationship with him…
I’m shocked and confused! What did his sexual advancement towards me have to do with him thinking I wanted a relationship? Did he actually feel rejected, hurt when I didn’t put out? Maybe he’s not a jerk as I thought. I’m not sure what to make of this…
Can someone try to analyze what exactly happened here, or what his motives are for reaching out to me now?
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Yeah, I agree with the first male answerer.
If I liked a girl and attempted to cuddle or put my arm around her and was rejected, that would definitely make me feel insecure and self-conscious.
Yes, guys are much more insecure than we usually let on. We often wonder if we're f***ing things up and if you're having a good time (with us).
If the guy you're talking about did something like try to finger you and say, "Come on, I thought you liked me"...then he's a f***ing idiot and a creep.
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