help! I need it badly I am going out with my best guy friend today how do I act,dress,and do my hair we are goint to the movies
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First off, we are attracted to our friends. Regardless of what people say, there is some aspect of their personality, looks, material things (they have a truck, business, wet bar, hot tub, etc), or some other quality. That's why the 'friend zone' is so baffling for some to understand.
Love is blind and I will explain.
I am in love with a woman in my life and have been for awhile. I have seen her when she feels crappy, hair is a mess, wearing sweats or pjs, face is breaking out because of T.O.M., eyes are bloodshot due to lack of sleep, etc. If it was anyone else I might say they look pretty bad. But I am head over heals for this woman and on her 'bad day' she looks amazing. My heart flutters in her presence. I will admit that I have seen her on a really bad day and I must say it wasn't pretty.
If you like him, tell him. Don't play games and give out signals. He might not consider it a 'date'. What if he took his friends or another woman as his date. This is how people get hurt. How many posts on here do you have to read to figure out that we are misinterpreting sent signals. If people were more honest and open about things, I am sure relationships (among other things) would be a heck of a lot better.
Think about how easy it would be to weed out the guys who just want a piece by telling him your one month rule. Oh, but that means you won't get to go on free dates for a month. That is a double-edged sword and that is why most people play the game.0