Here's the background - I only developed one breast... so I didn't have surgery just to make them bigger. I had surgery to make them appear more normal. Sad thing is that now I have really bad scars and it puts me off dating. What do you suggest?
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Hey, I dated a guy who had bad varicose veins and had surgery for them and wore support stockings to prevent them from coming back. You can bet he did not talk about this until after it was clear that we were in a relationship and going to be intimate. Then he told me. By then I was hooked emotionally and I was understanding. If he had told me on the first date, I probably would have felt weird and I am not sure we would have dated further. TMI.
So, that more of us had "problems" like this that actually caused more people to put the breaks on physical intimacy and focus on developing an emotional connection first. If you do not have an emotional connection, well yes you could end up with a guy who was looking for sex and will be put off by anything that is distracting to his sexual needs. Avoid that by taking time to date, see that the guy actually cares about you and your feelings and asks you to be his girl before you have sex. That is the guy who will not bat an eye.