I hear people toss that out all the time...I also hear people justify their relationships with people they're not attracted to with this comment. While I think these people think they're saying something noble, if I found out my boyfriend talked about me that way I would be extremely hurt.
I don't think I'm the most perfect girl in the world, but I want my boyfriend to think I am. I know not everyone thought my ex was perfect, but I did/still do think he was the hottest guy I'd ever seen. I think you owe it to the person your with to think the most of them.
So when I hear people say they're dating people they're not very attracted to physically because "it's not all about looks" it feels like you're jipping your significant other out of fuller, more well rounded relationship with someone else who might appreciate EVERY aspect of them.
How do you feel about this?
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I don't like it when people say that. It's not all about the looks, but looks ARE involved, and if you're not attracted to me physically, then it's a problem.0