Just curious. I know what it feels like for a girl but girls and guys think and act differently.
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awful...got one now and have had far too many in my life.
For us, since we are not as expressive, it's like a long, drawn-out, dull ache that gets buried inside. Really, what can you do about it, other than scream or go nuts (and that's not real productive)? So, for me, when the pain arises, which is alot, I just question and question and question, after awhile, you get really, really good at supressing your rage and anger by using all sorts of diversions to cover what you are feeling.
Bottom line: some of us are fairly clueless about how to "get over it", "not let it get to you", "move on" and the million other cliches that I wish I knew how to do but am cluless how to actually accomplish.
It's a fight, all the time, not to explode into violence or some other destructive behavior, which is how guys are programmed to respond.3