I know personality plays a huge role in if someone's attractive or not, but I mean off of first impression. How to know by a guys first moves, or lack there of?
How do you know if you're attractive to guys based on their first actions?
What if there aren't any actions taken or looks?
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Looks are part of the equation, no doubt about it, but no girl is attractive to every guy, no matter what she looks like. Every girl is going to have a set of guys who find her attractive, a set of guys who don't, and a group who need to know more about her personality to decide, meaning, they're okay with her looks, they just want more info about HER.
And a lot of physical attractiveness is not intrinsic beauty but packaging. If you dress conservatively, or boyish, or awkwardly, then many guys will dismiss you, even though a chance of dress may get you a ton of attention. Same girl, different look = different results. It's kind of like the movie She's All That.
But personality is a big factor too. If guys look at you and you don't appear to be fun and open-minded and so forth, they might dismiss you even though you are physically attractive. If you're shy, you may often come across as cold, uninterested, or even condescending without realizing it, and that's going to make you unattractive, or at least not very approachable, and has nothing to do with your looks.
Anyway, without pics or a more specific question, I'm not sure what else to tell you.3