I've been with my guy for two weeks, and I'm VERY attracted to him. We've had sex, but unfortunately it was only when I was drunk. We try it sober, but once he goes down on me I just freeze. I had an abortion in late November and it seems like it's been happening ever since then. I understand that's probably why, but I'm wondering if anyone who's been in my position might have any advice?
And please, don't bash my opinion on abortions. It's done with.
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I also have not been in your shoes directly, it is a very emotionally draining and damaging thing to go through... I think you are an extremely strong person for asking your question and representing yourself and not hiding from your situation... I think it is probably just going to take time to egt back into a physical groove again... I have been through a really intense scare before and it was really hard to bring myself back to a point where I was fully comfortable with getting intimate...
Once your mind is shot with thinking of everything that goes into the responsibility and life change and then to finally make a decision that you are comfortable with... I think you just have to take things really slow... Does your current guy know about your situation???0