I use a few dating sites, I don't have a lot of shirtless pics on all of them, but I seem to get hit on by a lot of guys and very few if any girls, and I'm wondering if its somehow the look I have or if maybe just the guys who hit on me have more confidence then most women?
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I looked at your pictures, and I would say not at all. In fact, you have many of the facial traits that at least back in the 1980s that many women I've seen consider classically handsome. Like a younger version of Tom Selleck but without the mustache. Nothing here gives off a 'gay vibe'.
Maybe that's the problem lol, you're good looking to both gay men and girls, but its gay men who act more bold. You even suggested that yourself.
Does the dating sites have anyway to block same gender contacting you?0