because I was told once that, that would be considered being racist, which I completely disagree with... is it or is not?
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I don't think there's anything wrong with having a preference. People come from different backgrounds and are raised differently. EVERYONE has a preference no matter what they say. If there were 2 guys that had the exact same personality or style but the only difference was race then there obviously would be a choice. It's all about what you're attracted to. It becomes racism when you don't think that anyone should be in an interracial relationship. I personally have a thing for guys with blue eyes, doesn't mean that I wouldn't date guys with any other eye color, it just means that I'm more likely going to be attracted to guys with blue eyes.0