I just notice a lot how hot girls are sometimes with pretty douchey looking guys a lot who don't really look that great or seem to be successful in any way. Why would you bother settling for garbage like that when you clearly could get someone nicer, better looking, and with more aspirations in life? Is it simply because often times these guys just don't care about things they do so they give more women attention so you like them just for that?
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Yes I settled for a guy like that... not that attractive and worked at Walmart, because I thought I was getting to the age when I needed to settle down. All my friends were married, engaged, or in serious relationships and I didn't want to be the odd one out, so I settled for a guy who was nice enough.
Turned out to be a bad idea - he abused me and then broke my heart. If a better guy had come along first then I would have gone out with him, but now... I'm afraid I have a hard time trusting anyone.2
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