Let's face it, most of us probably aren't AS amazing as we'd like to believe. At the very least, there are some areas we just don't excel in. The big question is whether or not they match up with our expectations in people we look to date?
Maybe you're not that funny, or you have a bit of a mean streak, or maybe you're overweight by 20-30 pounds and it's noticeable. Are you looking for that guy or girl who would be considered the most physically attractive in the room? The guy or girl who's cracking jokes and seems to radiate confidence? Do you think you're overshooting your "league" or do you think you keep an open mind and keep your standards realistic?
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It's kinda funny, cause I find myself dating guys who are clearly not in my "league," and they know it (not through me, just what people tell them). Truth is, I actually have pretty high specific expectations. I love confidence, because it's something I lack as an introvert. I want a guy older than me, or at least at my maturity/intellecutal level... The list kinda goes on, but I'm guessing my high desires/expectations may have landed me in such positions of taking whatever comes along...
And that's not exactly healthy either.
Truth is, I think my standards are realistic. I think I've really come close maybe a couple of times, and one of those times-a great deal. I feel like maybe I've settled a LOT, and I don't want to do that anymore, despite my possibly "unreal" expectations.
I hope that answers your question...1
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