I have found a lot of girls say how bad looking there exs are out of bitterness, but it seemed they thought they were hot beforehand... I don't get this, are they good looking or not or do your tastes change or is personality the make up for men?
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the expression 'love is blind' sometimes is what it refers to
I have had other girls at work say 'you can do a lot better' when they hear who I dated in the past
I know it's mean, to say oh this guy is ugly or not as good looking
but Again beauty is in the eye of the beholder and I don't really care about any of my ex's, I don't want to put them down but yes they could have been a bit hotter...
I think I mostly liked guys who were a bit intelligent so I bypassed looks but some had bad personality and when I did fall for the 'hot' guy, his personality wasn't hot either
people learn from their mistakes is all I gotta say :)
I dont' believe my tastes change, some guys are good at hiding their bad selves and put on nice face. Personally MY tastes have always been a guy with a good heart, someone who will take care of me, honest and loving, intelligent...um and it's hard to judge character right away, it takes time.0