So there is this guy and I am sure he likes this girl that I like, but he is so much taller, better looking and he is much more popular than me. I on the other hand I am much average, I am short and no I only have a small group of friends. How can I compete with somebody like that?
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Okay, when I was courting my ex long ago, there were at least several other men vying for her too. All of then were better looking than me, more fit than I was at that time. One was a Danish millionaire businessman. Nice sandy blond hair and a glowing tan, the manners of an aristocrat, loaded with cash, it was unmitigated gall of me to even think I could compete with him. And yeah, he was taller than me, most of her suitors were.
But unmitigated gall I did have and compete with him I did, and of all the, I must admit, men better than me who were also courting her, she did pick me. We did manage to stay married for 7 years, and though we had problems, neither one of us cheated.
Stop comparing yourself lol. Stop focusing on his stengths and your weaknesses. Just put your best foot forward. She may not pick you, but if you mope about how good he is and how you don't compare to him, I promise you she won't.0