so I was in live chat as I usually am and I was talking to someone for the first time, I won't mention their name but the convo as about body weight muscles and stuff like that
so I said "i don't want to be the stereotypical muscle guy just as much as girls don't want to be the stereotypical good looking and healthy skin type of girl"
theirs a commercial that shows this to be true
so she wound up saying I was cool because of it, and I'm wondering
what does it really take to be cool? is it saying something just like what I said, is it doing good, is it being there for people, I mean I just want to know what being cool really is
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Yeh I disagree-i've never met a girl that doesn't want to be the stereotypical good looking and healthy skin type of girl. Why would any girl want to be ugly with bad skin? And why would any guy not want to be muscly and attractive to lots of girls?! Everyone has different perceptions of what is cool and what isn't. In that context it was probably meant as you being cool because you don't conform and you don't feel you need muscles etc to get places. You don't mind being different idk. I consider cool as someone who dresses sexy (sweats,hoodies) and has a great personality and is good looking and someone who you want to be around because they're fun-that's cool to me.2