I am a 25 year old male and haven't had a relationship in 3 years. I am self conscious about the way I look and was wondering if the reason I can't find someone is because I am ugly and want to know what types of girls I can attract? I want to get your guy's opinion of what you think and how I can improve my looks. Please help! Thanks!
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No I don't think you're ugly, you're an attractive guy and you have a nice smile. You look kind, which is certainly something to be valued in a partner. You also look clean and appropriately dressed for your age - hence professional and capable, which lets face it, is a lot more important in our age bracket than being up with the latest trends. That said, it doesn't hurt to present a stylish image. If you wanted to make your look a little more edgy and up-to date you could opt for a pair of the thicker-framed glasses which are trendy at the moment, and perhaps wear a casual fitted shirt without a tie like this link You could pair it with dark wash jeans in a straight cut such as these link though I'd stay away from anything skinny, stonewash, or ripped/bleached as this looks less appropriate in the mid 20s, you want to give the impression of being a basically responsible and mature man I'm sure. Dark converse would work well with this outfit and add a bit of fun, as would any dark canvas shoes. If it's cold where you are, the shawl collar jumpers such as this link which are trendy at the moment will add bulk and structure to a more slender frame, but look best worn fitted rather than baggy.
We can give suggestions as to what we think you would look good in, but of course, you have to feel comfortable in it yourself first and foremost, so that you can feel more confident when approaching women. Likely you just need to join some groups and socialise a bit more in order to meet the right woman, but certainly you don't need to worry about your appearance. If you struggle with confidence, self help books/websites on assertiveness can be a really helpful tool.. I used these to help overcome shyness and to be more effective in my career so I can vouch for them.
I hope this helps. =)1