I get hit on more when I'm wearing a t-shirt, yoga pants or norts, my hair looking like an afro, no makeup and coincidentally when I happen to be having a bad day
But I don't get hit on as much when I'm all dressed up. Today and yesterday, I think I got hit on a record # of times lmao
Not that I should care lol
why is that? Because it's one thing to look more approachable and another to just be a hot sloppy (what should be unapproachable) mess.
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What you see as "hot sloppy mess" is actually what's approachable. Guys tend to try to read into a girl's appearance and try to gather what they can about her before they approach. And when she puts what the guy would consider to be too much obvious effort into it, it makes her seem like more likely to be a drama queen. It probably won't make sense to you because when you think about it there isn't a whole lot of logic behind it, but to guys, there's a correlation between effort in appearance and potential for unbearable drama.1