What would you think of a husband who in the past 9 and present) has said these things
After my Mum died I was feeling depressed and lonely he told me to 'Not be so F***ing stupid' and that everyone felt that way.
Makes you feel 2inches tall just by looking at you.
After I make a statement about something tells me to not start picking an argument ( I'm the most laid back person! Even the Dr says I should be horizontal lol)
Can't understand why, now that everyones old enough to look after themselves, go back to having a social life. I started dancing once a week in Jan and have been out more times since then than I had in the past 10 yrs.
We had a joint birthday party but he never told anyone it was mine as well. (I know sounds petty).
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If your husband is pushing you down, especially after you have been struggling to cope with a death, he is not treating you right. That outright dismissal and condescension of your pain is emotional abuse, and you do not deserve that. Lacking an emotional connection just makes the situation lonelier and harder. Hang in there!2