I looked at some perfect looking dude today and realized that no matter what I do or how I act, people will always like him more than they like me. People will always much rather be around him and find him more desirable. It just made me feel so existential, so I began to contemplate on how I can be more desirable or have people prefer to be around me. I am by no means ugly but I'm also not super attractive. Please I want your honest shallow opinions people, just describe somebody you would prefer to be around than somebody who is just amazingly good looking. The description can't include anything that has to do with what they look like.
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My secret as a girl is brain and personality. I remembered how this one classmate was hitting on this hot stuck up girl in my major. The guy didn't even noticed me but guess over the year he started to treat me really nicely and helping me with school. What I learned is that sure looks may get the attention but I got substance, babe and that is more worth it when I am old and gray. I am also very business like and can discuss hard science, technology, psychology, and business concepts. I also work on building my wealth and saving so it is great investment conversation with guys.
It may not get me all the guys but it sure help me with my career advancement and getting guys with substance. (I don't know why it said I am under 18 on here). Anyways, my advice is to be the best you by building that connection with people (networking) and looking to build your own wealth. When you are successful, you will be more attractive (that what I learned from relatives). When you are specialize in your career or talent in a field, your confident can grow from that (being an expert) vs having to inflate your ego to try to match another hot guy in the room. It is better if you can make people feel good in your present. I hope I help!0