Alright let me first point out, I don't think I look good.
I am a 21 year old guy who is on his way to become a Firefighter, I'm intelligent , funny, sweet, kind, compassionate, and determined. Cowboy by birth, I have been around the ringer a few times from getting bucked off horses and bulls. I wear my cowboy hat where ever I go as well as my great grandfathers dog tags. Every time I go up to a girl and try to start up a conversation, they just look at me and laugh then walk away leaving me to wonder what the hell I am doing wrong.
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How are you approaching girls? And what kind of girls? Coming from a farmgirl... most people don't want this lifestyle and it makes dating really hard. Take a look at where you are going to approach these girls. I have zero luck in the city, most city guys don't want to go cruise down backroads on a Friday night, hang out around a bonfire and shoot cans off fenceposts. They don't want to saddle up on a Sunday afternoon and go ride for a couple hours. Figure out what you like, what you like doing and then approach girls in the same places you like to be. Maybe its a rodeo, horse show or whatever else you like to do.
There are girls out there who like guys like you. We just happen to be a bit harder to find. Cowboy hats are hit and miss... I'm in farm country, I can only name one guy that can get away with wearing a cowboy hat. But my girlfriends out west tell me every guy out there has one on. You're more than likely just approaching the wrong girls because if you can ride a horse and treat a girl well, any girl around here would consider dating you.1