I've been seeing more and more that guys on here seem to think that if you're a guy and you're good looking then you magically just get any girl you want... well it isn't true at all, just sayin'
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Being good looking has it's problems too. From my experiences, most girls (obviously not all...girls always attack me on here when I don't specify) expect you to be extremely confident and funny and smooth and outgoing when they first meet you, and if you're the least bit awkward like I tend to be, they are immediatly turned off. If you're not as good looking, girls don't tend to have many expectations of you, which makes you look 100x more confident when you exceed them.
You're always expected to get really attractive girls, and people will talk sh*t about you if you're with a girl who is "beneath" you lookswise. It might not sound too bad but the pressure seriously sucks. However if you do get with a hot girl, it's just because you're good looking, and everyone expects it of you, compared to the average/ugly guy who will get mad respect.
There are plenty more, not to mention all the problems that every person has to deal with. I think guys who say that just use it as an excuse not to try. God forbid they have to put a little more effort into something as someone else...