When it comes to looks in the opposite gender...
Would you go out with someone "under your league" ?
Would you marry someone not so appealing?
When you talk about someone who is not so appealing do you make fun of them saying "yuck!someone pocked that one with the ugly stick" or do you say it more respectfully "he/she is not the best looking one I saw"
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Well personally, I don't think it's "shallow" to not want to date someone you aren't physically attracted to. I would not date someone I don't find physically attractive. That being said, looks are not the only thing that matters, personality matters a lot too. However, looks are obviously the first thing that initially attract people to someone else. I don't think that makes someone shallow.
But, I would NEVER make fun of anyone just because I am not physically attracted to them. If an unattractive person hits on me I just politely and respectfully decline. There's no need to be rude to someone just because of that.0