Is it weird that my boyfriend and I look similar? Help people

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Well he has blonde hair and piercing blue eyes. My hair is dark and so are my eyes. Our facial structures, head size, and build are pretty much the same. I'm a shorter version of him. Our teeth are also the same.

We even kiss the exact same way, but it feels good. Is that weird though?

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nattinatasha
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I guess scientifically we are all related seeing that we are all humans and of the same species. My sister and I have the same mother and father and we look nothing alike. People see us and think that we are friends. I think that even if you are not related to someone you could still share the similar phenotypes. And you may be distantly related like have a cousin from over 200 years ago that married maybe his grandmother's ancestor from 200 years ago but,maybe the,line broke off somewhere. Again these are just theories.

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- avarose934
  
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  Yeah I look nothing like my sister either! Weird though, I'd kinda like to be with someone who isn't too much like me because I find that weird. Also I'm scared that if our genetic make-up is too alike it would cause problems later along the line...like mutations wher children are involved or whatever.
confugirl
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People tend to be more attracted to others who look like them. Provided that they don't completely hate themselves. Couples also start to "adopt" each others looks as time goes by. They actually very gradually morph into each others' faces, I'm not joking. It's some weird evolutionary mechanism. That's why older couples tend to look alike. So no, it's not strange at all. It's completely normal.

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  I had no idea that happened! weird how you can start to resemble you other half as you age though...
COCOCHANEL | 2.7K opinions shared on Fashion & Beauty topic.
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it was like that with me and my ex. people thought we were related. my friends said that we looked so alike we could be brother and sister. it's fine.

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- avarose934
  
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  Yeah I get them same thing! It's kinda cringey though...

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Levin | 441 opinions shared on Fashion & Beauty topic.
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I mean, I suppose it is the ultimate expression of vanity, to want to have sex with ourselves! They say it happens, by various unconscious processes, that we tend to go after similar looking people to certain figureheads in our lives. I wouldn't worry about it, you make each other happy, you're hopefully not related!, who can say how similar or different you are in reality, just go with the flow!

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- avarose934
  
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  thankfully we are NOT related haha :P
kovalinkie19 | 52 opinions shared on Fashion & Beauty topic.
Yoda

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It's actually not that uncommon. Take a look at couples and people that are together, you will see many a times that they either look similar or at least enought that they 'fit' together. This is perhaps down to some egotistical nature of us humans that find our own features attractive.

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- avarose934
  
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  Thanks, I like this answer most so far! It's actually informative and not silly :)
- kovalinkie19
  
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  Many thanks! :)
- avarose934
  
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  :)

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jenni_ms
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Well you know what they say, all couples eventually start to look alike lol

It's true after being together awhile I've noticed it a few times. You two are just ahead of the crowd lol

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- avarose934
  
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  haha thank you :P
Anonymous

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don't be afraid to take a DNA test. lol I am just kidding. with the exception of interracial couples I think that this is common with most couples in my opinion. although I seriously doubt that Halle Berry will start looking like Olivier Martinez

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- avarose934
  
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  hahaha yeah I agree :P
Stacyzee | 1.2K opinions shared on Fashion & Beauty topic.
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Yes, he's you in your male life.

You both somehow found eachother.

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- avarose934
  
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  woahhh calm down bro.
cavmanier | 615 opinions shared on Fashion & Beauty topic.
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I think that's just coincidence. I just like girls that look like girls.

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Deviouscourage
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I'm surprised no one made a DNA testing joke yet...

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- avarose934
  
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  me too to be fair haha...
Strider90
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Actually this is funny. Imagine how your kids will look like.

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- avarose934
  
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  LOL oh dear :P hahah clone family...
xXxluvmasheenxXx
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sometimes opposites attract and sometimes opposite opposites attract as well. make sure you pay attention and be consistently vigilant for clues.

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Stingraey
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Eh. Maybe you're a lesbian.

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- avarose934
  
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  ha NOT. I love guys way too much :) pecks, abs and a firm rear end all the way!
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Yoda

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Oh my god, you're the same person!

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- avarose934
  
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  hahah I like how you have the grumpy cat as your dp!
- posted
  
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  XD
Anonymous

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That's good you found your perfect match lol

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- avarose934
  
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  haha, thank you :P that remains to be seen though!
- Opinion Owner
  
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  Your welcome. And what do you mean? He doesn't have the same personality?
- avarose934
  
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  er he's a little shy with making moves etc and I'm a bit more bubbly than him!
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- Opinion Owner
  
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  I see, just give him a little bit of time, shy guys aren't very bold in that way but once they have done it a couple times they become a lot more comfortable and it should not be serious problem.
- avarose934
  
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  I hope so, makes me feel insecure that he's being the way he is! haha
- Opinion Owner
  
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  That's just the way he is give him some time and if he doesn't seem to be getting comfortable than I would be concerned
- avarose934
  
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  Are some guys honestly THAT shy though? He's weird to the extent that when he met me, he added me on FB then deleted the request...then I had to re-add him. And when I saw him around he would be in the same place as me or nearby but would barely speak to me. Drives me crazyyyy! I'm like, am I that ugly...haha.
- Opinion Owner
  
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  Yes they are. Wait what lol, why would he delete the request for? Lol he is really shy that is all.
- avarose934
  
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  It makes me feel like a guy isn't interested when he acts that way though! Er, he lives with a guy who I used to date (they're best friends) and the other guys doing everything to put him off of me, so I think he thought it was easier to not be friends with me. I don't even know anymore haha
- Opinion Owner
  
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  That's understandable. That can be kind of awkward if he is living with someone you dated before. Lol umm is he becoming anymore open with you?
- avarose934
  
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  We dated over a year ago now and it only lasted a month. The guy he's living with hates me. Not really, he's always been shy around me but since he found out I used to date his flatmate he's got whole lot worse!
- Opinion Owner
  
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  He could be filling his head with crap about you then. Now he doesn't know weather to trust you or not.
- avarose934
  
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  Yeah, see he did have a really bad break up with his last girlfriend...she totally broke him and left him for somebody else. So I already know he has issues with trust. His flatmate knows this too and is using it to his advantage :/. Whereas I'm nice, I just hope he might realize that one day!
- Opinion Owner
  
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  Well that can really screw him up. That can be a lot of trouble, since they live together he can be filling his head with bad things about you all the time. Just give him time, see if he can open up.
- avarose934
  
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  yeah the girl did really screw him up, she's pretty much a Nicole Sherzinger/Beyonce lookalike too...so the competition's high. I will do that though, maybe overtime he'll open up more.
- Opinion Owner
  
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  Lol, OK well don't try and compare yourself to someone from his past that's never good. That is probably the best you can hope for, either that or he gets another room mate that can't fill his head with garbage.
Anonymous

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date ugly guys , we exist too

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- avarose934
  
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  Aww come on! it's not all about looks anyway, I'm purely personality driven.

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