Most Helpful Girl
First of all, don't go seeking the GAG community, of which appears to be predominantly ignorant, for positive reinforcement with your hair. If you have a love and appreciation for the way your hair grows out of your head, then that's good enough. : ) You should never want to have to NEED others to uplift you in order to feel value in one of your features.
Don't listen to ignorant males and females who have no tact, decency, and try to put you down by claiming that your hair would be better if it was straight.
I sense you trying to insinuate that it's better for you to be natural because you are mixed with Mexican and black and that hints that you are insecure within your hair. Like perhaps you think having biracial hair is your ticket to beauty. Get rid of that mentality, if it exists.