I've only tried talking to a few girls that I was interested in, but I've rarely tried to pursue anything further even if there were good "signs." I've always felt that my weight would end up getting in the way.
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Yes, if he was determined to lose it and if I didn't see behavior that would indicate that he might lose interest in working hard, definitely. Weight is not everything. If he has a good heart and an awesome personality, I wouldn't hesitate to go out with a guy who's a little overweight.