look for sex, friends, or relationships? If you're a girl, what do you look for when you go out to the bars? Would you change your appearance based on what you are looking for?
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Definitely not! It's really arrogant and self-absorbed to assume that if a girl is wearing sexy clothing and high heels, then it just must be to please and impress men because she's looking for sex. So kudos to you for not making that foolish assumption.
There was a time in my life where I would dress like that simply FOR ME. I was lacking genuine confidence and my self-esteem was so low that I gained pride in the way I filled out a certain dress. Although I was a virgin who certainly was not looking for sex, the men's stares reassured me that I was sexy and beautiful.
However, now I don't dress like that because I'm aware of how much attention I'll get. I generally don't like to have a whole lot of attention on me unless it's specifically coming from that one special guy. Another reason I don't dress like that is because I feel it's very inappropriate considering I have a boyfriend. Yet, I love wearing high heels because they make me as tall as a model and they can add to your room presence with the way you walk in them.1
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