He says I'm "obsessed" with being skinny as in that I can never not think about calories and ya it's true. I've never been one of those people that can eat whatever they want without getting fat. So counting calories (or at least being aware of them) has become second nature
Tbh I think a lot of girls are like that?
Also he was complaining that I'm a good cook hardly ever make "real food" but always diet versions. And ya in my house dishes like Mac n Cheese or cookies are always going to be the exception
So I asked if he would mind if I was 10 or 20 lbs heavier and well he wouldn't. So I don't know what to think? I feel like this whole conversation was all about him wanting me to be something else.
And you know, most guys like skinny, he for sure does and you can't have it both ways. You can't junk food all day and be super skinny
Most Helpful Guy
He sounds both shallow and erratic. Honestly, it's him that's obsessed with your weight... not you.
Just go out for pizza, what's the problem? you don't have to eat pizza they have other stuff right? Sounds like he might be more annoyed at the fact he can't go out to eat with out effecting your strict dietary habits.
If that's the case it fucking sucks. I dated a girl once that had gluten (and everything else) food allergies. Dinning out was a 24hour in advance process. She never wanted to choose where to go (which would have been easier) i had to decide.0
Most Helpful Girl
"You can't eat junk food all day and be super skinny" actually, you can. Or, I can.
I can honestly say I'm not aware of my calories or watching what I eat due to weight. I also find it annoying when others do this. Everything is fine in moderation. Pizza included haha.0
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